Thursday, June 27, 2013

28 April 2013 - Crossed Another Milestone

               Today you crossed your next milestone and I was very happy to see you crawl. Though it was not the actual crawling, you have started dragging yourself and moving forward. Your grandparents and aunts were asking me since last few days if you have started crawling. There was not even a sign of you trying and today from nowhere I see you pulling yourself forward! I video taped the awesome moment and called your dad to inform him the good news! 
               On the 4th of April, you kept calling me "amma" the entire day. I was really happy when you said "ammaaaa baaaaa" several times when I was in the kitchen. I couldn't stay in the kitchen when you called me so lovingly! When you were 7 months old, you were not letting me be in the kitchen. It was not just I had to stay in sight but also you wanted me to be within 2 feet distance all the time. Your pediatrician called it "Separation Anxiety".
                You have another restriction when you go to sleep. This has been in practice from a long time. Every time when you are falling asleep, you keep your legs 90 degrees up in the air. As you doze off your legs touch the floor because there is something called gravity power. But this theory is against your wish. The minute your legs touch the ground, you partially wake up from sleep, cry and pull your legs up again. It happens several times before you totally fall asleep. If you keep doing it more than 5-6 times, either your dad or I keep our hands or legs or a pillow under your legs and once you are off to sleep, very slowly we take it off. Sometimes even then you pull your legs up again and we have follow the process all over once again.  
                On April 13th, you went to a temple for the first time after Anvi akka's birthday party. It looked like you enjoyed being there and you loved the temple bell. Your dad taught you to pull the rope and bell. You did it several times with a broad smile of achievement on your face. When people try to carry you, you easily go with men and if women try to carry you, you cry. You have learnt to play tricks. If I don't carry you, you either rub your eyes or put your fingers in mouth even when you are full and not sleepy.
               You have so many toys at home, but you get fed up so fast. You play with them for 5 minutes each and then try to catch other things around. Things like a piece of card board, crumpled paper balls, a stripe of tulle cloth, empty peanut bottle, paper towel role, a spoon are the treasures you have in your department and you don't let me even touch a thing from that. You try to carry the biggest possible object you find - like vessels in the kitchen or a box. You even shout a lot these days. 
               On the 21st of April you went to Kroger with your dad alone. I was feeling too tired to come and we thought of trying this. I was thinking about you the entire time though I was at home. You sat all alone in the back seat of the car. When you both didn't come home after 1 and half hour, I was really worried and called your dad to find out if everything was fine. Your dad laughed at me for the way I was missing you and he said you were fast asleep and that was why you both were still in Kroger. He didn't want you to wake up in the car and cry when you don't see anybody!  

                                              

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

11 June 2013 - Blue, Blue, Blue!

               Yesterday I had an appointment with the doctor and it was a special one. It was special because, I knew that I was going to see you for a long time and this is going to be the last time I get to see you before you are born. We knew that we were going to get to know if you are alright from head to toe. And, this visit was the most awaited one not just for me and for your dad, but also to your grand parents and uncles and aunts. Because we were going to know your gender.
               And.... You are a Boy, a handsome one! We all three including your sister saw you play for half an hour when the ultrasound specialist was checking if you are fine from all the angles and all the body parts. You were absolutely perfect and we are all extremely happy. You were sleeping off in between and waking up kicking me, punching me, twisting and turning in that little bag! I could never get tired of seeing you and you looked like a beautiful little baby.
               It was not difficult to find out your gender, you were sleeping in a favorable position. I could see that you are quite comfortable inside, you were enjoying the warm place, which is totally yours and now you don't have anybody to interrupt you nor to trouble you. But, don't get too used to it, you have only a few more months left to stay there and once you come out, your sister is waiting to trouble you! She is finding out new ways to pinch and hit day after day! She is good at slapping too! 
               But you looked so adorable and like a little miniature baby. From some angles, you looked like a skeleton too, but a cute skeleton! You didn't scare me because after seeing your sister that way, I was expecting to see you so. Doctor was measuring your length and you weighed 12 ounces. 
               I felt you move inside for the first time on 18th May 2013. But now a days, I get your kicks and messages regularly. I wonder how much food you eat! I am not willing to accept that it's I who eat. It's you making me eat so much - 2 breakfasts, 2 lunches, snacks in between and dinners. I eat like I have never seen food before and I miss all the Indian food! Feel like eating so many food items, every food I remember tempts me now and I keep looking at the Indian food websites and drool. Your sister does not let me cook much, though I try to prepare some with her playing in the kitchen and pulling out things and throwing them all over the place. But staring at those yummy pictures, imagining the taste and eating what I get here is quite fulfilling. So it's not so bad. Only problem is I feel very tired. Can't help it because your sister has not reached the age to understand it and give me less work. Also, we have to eat. So I can't escape from cooking and cleaning as well.
               I have already started thinking about the names for you. One of my friends Amritha suggested the name "Advait" for you. I like the name but there are so many Advaits I have been hearing these days. Another name was suggested by your Shailatthe and that is "Aayu". But your dad is not so happy with the name. I have another name in mind which I kind of like now is "Anshu" or "Anshul". The first one means Sun and the other means unique. But I don't know if your dad will like the name. And your maternal grandpa has suggested a few names like "Lambodara", "Gana Nayaka" and some more which makes me laugh till I get tears! Let's wait and see what is going to be your name!
             

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

12 May 2013 - Grandparents Got to Know about You

               It was since last 3 months we had not told your grand parents about you. Every time we had a video chat with them, I had been bugging your dad to tell the "great news". But somehow every time we ended up keeping the joy within us and today finally we shared the sweet news with them!
               Even your dad and I were very curious to see their expression and reaction when they hear the news. When we told your Jogibettu grand parents, they seemed so amazed and extremely happy. Especially your ajja seemed like he was going to dance at this age. Later when we got in touch with your Bekur grand parents, even your Divya atthe was there. And all were in a happy surprise!
               Your Chaithra atthe and my Puttatthe were the next ones to know after your sodara mava and atthe. Shaku atthe got to know next. We are going to get used to the shocked looks of people when they get to know about you. I am going to love this and really happy about you. Your dad and I are very curious about your gender and both of us would be happy no matter what it is. If you are a girl, your paternal grandparents will have two male grand kids and two female each. If you are a boy, your parents will have one of each. Both ways, you create equality! :)


6 May 2013 - You are Growing Everyday!

               Today we had a regular checkup followed by a blood test. I was worried when the nurse went on searching for your little heart with that machine of hers. When we finally heard your heart beat - 150 per minute, it sounded like the most wonderful music. I once again felt the urge to see you. We don't have to be very disappointed. Because in our next visit, we are going to have the mid pregnancy ultrasound and going to see you for quite a long time that day. It is scheduled for June 10th.
               Before that, we are planning to go on a trip to New York, Philadelphia and Washington DC. I hope it creates no harm to you. According to internet, these are the safe 3 months for such trips when you are inside the womb. And don't forget, you are still making me vomit once in a while now. And making me feel tired and giddy almost all the time. You better stop troubling me soon because you are not small anymore, you have been in my tummy for 16 weeks now! And I am proud of your existence. I am craving a lot for sour and spicy food these days. I feel like eating homemade mango pickle and a lot more food items. Wish I was in India or someone was here to cook for me. Your sister is not letting me take any rest, I hope you get enough rest inside your little temporary house!


8 April 2013 - Heard your Heartbeat and Saw that Tiny You!

               Today was the day we had been waiting for! I had an early morning appointment and was hoping that you have started to breathe and you are fine. And we heard that super fast (160 per minute) and super cute heart beat today. It was not just the heart beat, but we could also see that tiny little body and I am amazed to see that your arms and legs are already formed! And the wonderful part was to see you move those tiny arms and legs. You were awake and even the lady at the ultrasound had a smile on her face when she saw those kicks and punches! 
               I am a member of baby sites once again now and according to those sites you are now 1 and a half inches long! Can you imagine how cute it is to see such a small human being shaking its body!!! Your dad had a huge smile on his face and after the ultrasound and the visit with the doctor, he directly took me to Taco Bell for a little treat!
               After the ultrasound, doctor met us and gave all the instructions. I had a blood test after that. And you got some sample gifts like diapers, wipes, a pacifier and some magazines already! I once again can't explain how happy I am and waiting to see that beautiful day you reach my arms.
               Meanwhile your mom is regularly puking, sometimes to the plate I am eating and there was a time I fainted in the bathroom! Right now, you are not even as big as a sparrow, but you already have started kicking and punching your mommy though I can't feel it yet! How naughty are you going to be? How much trouble are you going to make? Your sister is already giving me a hard time, you better not join her party!!!


21 March 2013 - You are There!!!

               We already know that Dr. Kristie Moss is a good doctor and clears all my doubts, guides well and does not make us wait very long. So your dad thought  that it is better to go to the same doctor than going to an unknown doctor. We might not feel comfortable with the new one, better not regret later. So we finally thought about it and chose Dr. Kristie Moss again.
               Today I had my first OB appointment and guess the result? It turns to be positive!!! It's really exciting to know that the 4th and the last member of our little family is arriving after 7 months! Now there is no space for worries in my mind, it is filled with only joy and excitement! Your dad has been smiling throughout the day as well. He came home very early from office today.
               It is the 68th time I told Aadya that she is getting a little brother or sister to play with and how they both can be good friends and go to school together and even trouble their parents together with all their mischief! Whether she understood it or not, she seems happy with the idea!


26 February 2013 - A New Life

               I almost know it for sure that there is a tiny little life in me. There are several obvious symptoms to say that and I vomited this morning. Have been feeling uncomfortable since last few days. Even your dad has a doubt about your existence. Somewhere I am terrified about the thought of having another baby so soon when your sister is so small. She already seems very capable of hurting you. She is giving me too many sleepless nights and if you join her after 8 or 9 months, I will totally have to forget what sleep is and what rest is!
              But deep inside, when I think of seeing another cutie pie soon, how can I be not happy? I am not just happy by the thought, I already feel complete with the thought of your arrival! I can't believe it myself that I am looking forward for the confirmation by my doctor. I want to choose a different doctor this time, because you are a different person, I don't want it to be the same experience. My doctor is not bad, I liked her a lot, but for a new person, I want everything new. I am going through the doctors' list and pregnancy websites. 
               Though I might be pregnant once again so soon, it does not feel monotonous, everything feels fresh and new. I love this feeling.


Friday, June 7, 2013

New Jersey, New York, Washington DC, Philadelphia and Niagara

25 May 2013 - 
  • 11.30 am : Left home to IAH with Aravind, Aadya, Prasanna and Sunita
  • 2.45 pm   : Aravind, Uma and Aadya took off from IAH
  • 7.00 pm   : (1 hour time difference) Landed at New Jersey
  • 8.00 pm   : Reached Satya-Shaku's home
26 May 2013 -
  • Chit-chat at home
  • Men played TT
  • 3.00 pm : Left to New York with Satya anna and Shaku atthige
  • World Trade Center and City tour
27 May 2013 -
  • 8.00 am   : Satya anna dropped us to the bus pick up point at Edison
  • 8.45 am   : Left Edison in the tour bus. Guide - Mr.Leo
  • 10.00 am : Reached Philadelphia 
  • Liberty Bell Center
  • Independence Hall
  • Statue of Washington
  • Lunch at a food court - Burger King
  • 12.45 pm : Left Philadelphia to Washington DC (District of Columbia) 
  • National Air and Space Museum
  • USA State Capitol
  • Madame Tussaud's Museum
  • White House
  • Lincoln Memorial
  • Veteran Memorial
  • Mary Land - Dinner at Organic Veggie Bowl shop
  • Stay at Best Western, Mary Land
28 May 2013 -
  • 6.00 am : Good Morning
  • 6.30 am : Complimentary breakfast at Hotel
  • 7.15 am : Left Mary Land
  • 12.30 pm : Corning Glass Museum
  • Lunch at Food Court
  • 2.45 pm : Left Corning Glass Museum
  • 5.45 pm : Reached Niagara
  • Maid of the Mist
  • I-MAX Theatre
  • Rainbow Colors of Niagara Water Falls
  • Dinner at Indian Restaurant
  • 9.30 pm : Left Niagara Falls
  • 10.00 pm : Stay at Holiday Inn
29 May 2013 -
  • 7.15 am : Left the Hotel after breakfast
  • 8.00 am : Old Fort, Niagara
  • Ontario Lake
  • 9.30 am : Power Vista Station
  • 10.30 am : Goat Island
  • 12.00 pm : Lunch at Indian Restaurant - Shalimar Garden
  • 2.45 pm : Loo break
  • 5.00 pm : Loo break
  • 8.00 pm : Reached New York and took cabs to Port Authority Bus Station
  • 9.00 pm : Bus to New Jersey
  • 10.15 pm : Reached Satya-Shaku's home
30 May 2013 -
  • 11.00 am : Took a cab from home to Bus Station 
  • 12.30 pm : Reached Port Authority, New York
  • 2.00 pm : Cruise to Statue of Liberty, Ellis Island, Brooklyn bridge and around the Manhattan city 
  • Lunch at Chipotle
  • Times Square
  • Empire State Building - Evening and Night View
  • 9.45 pm : Bus from Port Authority New York to New Jersey
  • 10.45 pm : Reached Satya-Shaku's home
31 May 2013 -
  • 9.15 am : Left home to bus station
  • 10.15 am : Reached New York - Port Authority
  • Natural History Museum
  • Central Park and Lake
  • Late Lunch at Chipotle
  • Hop on - Hop off bus - Wall Street, City Sight seeing 
  • Grand Central Station
  • Back to Port Authority, New York
  • 10.00 pm : Reached Satya - Shaku's home
1 June 2013 -
  • 8.40 am : Left home to Airport with Satya anna
  • 11.30 am : Flight to IAH
  • 3.15 pm : (1 hour time difference) Lunch at Taco Bell
  • 4.00 pm : Reached home
  • 9.00 pm : Dinner at Chipotle
  • 10.00 pm : Reached IAH to pick up Prasanna and Sunita
  • 12.00 am : Goodnight